
Professional Services Built on Trust, Care, and Real-Life Experience
What began as wedding officiant services has grown into a range of professional offerings — all guided by the same calm presence, integrity, and commitment to doing things the right way.
Serving and Trusted by individuals, couples , families, and organizations across Connecticut
“Creating meaningful moments with calm, attentive support and intentional presence when it matters most.”
“We serve moments across life — not just celebrations.”
We offer community-centered ministerial services for life’s meaningful moments — including memorials, blessings, and spiritual care — provided with calm presence and genuine heart.
Some of our ministerial services are offered on a community sliding scale ($175–$375) with 10% donated to local nonprofits — because care should extend beyond the moment.
Who we serve
Individuals & Families
Weddings, photography, mobile notary services, and safety training for families, caregivers, and individuals — handled with calm guidance and care.
Organizations & Community Spaces
AED readiness inspections, CPR / First Aid / AED training, and notary services when needed for business or organizational documents.
One Standard of Care — No Matter the Service
At Lasting Memories by Tom LLC, we believe that the moments and responsibilities people trust you with deserve professionalism, preparation, and genuine care.
Whether we are standing beside a couple on their wedding day, capturing meaningful moments through photography, providing mobile notary services, or helping organizations prepare for emergencies, our approach remains the same — calm, dependable, and detail-focused.
ORIGIN & GROWTH
Our work began with wedding officiant services — supporting couples during one of the most meaningful moments of their lives.
Over time, that same trust led people to ask for support in other important areas. Photography. Mobile notary services. Health and safety training. AED readiness.
Each service was added intentionally, in response to real needs, and held to the same standard of professionalism and care that built our reputation from the start.
A calm, steady presence when it matters most.
Some moments happen between the moments — our behind-the-scenes coverage quietly preserves them.
Our work extends across life’s celebrations, transitions, and moments of loss — always guided by calm, attentive presence.
Our Services
Each service we offer is rooted in trust, responsibility, and respect for the people we serve.
Wedding Officiant Services
Personalized wedding ceremonies delivered with calm guidance, thoughtful preparation, and genuine care — honoring your story, values, and commitment.
Explore Photography
Professional wedding and event photography focused on capturing authentic moments, meaningful details, and the story of your day with care and intention.
Behind the Scenes Photography
Behind-the-Scenes Coverage
A signature service preserving the moments you don’t always see — quiet exchanges, heartfelt reactions, and the story unfolding between the highlights.
Mobile Notary Services
Reliable, state-compliant notary services with clear communication and flexible scheduling.
Health & Safety Training
Professional training designed to help individuals and organizations feel confident and prepared.
AED Inspection & Readiness
Professional AED inspections and readiness checks designed to ensure your device is accessible, compliant, and ready when it matters most.
Community Ministerial Services
Ministerial & Spiritual Care — compassionate support for ceremonies, blessings, pet loss support, and more.

About Lasting Memories by Tom
Built on trust and real-life experience, Lasting Memories by Tom LLC provides professional services for meaningful and essential moments — serving individuals, families, and organizations across Connecticut with care and integrity.
The Calm Presence Promise™
The Calm Presence Promise™ is our commitment to showing up prepared, steady, and fully present — creating an environment where couples, families, and clients feel supported, grounded, and at ease during meaningful moments.
The Lasting Memories Promise™
The Lasting Memories Promise™ represents our dedication to creating meaningful, thoughtfully guided experiences that are remembered with warmth, clarity, and care long after the moment has passed.
The Calm Presence Promise™ and The Lasting Memories Promise™ are proprietary brand elements of Lasting Memories by Tom LLC.
Reviews:
So happy we got Minister Tom to officiate our simple wedding the day after Thanksgiving. He was very pleasant to work with and guided us to a great successful event. Highly recommend!
Christine S 12/02/2024-thumbtack.com
What a lovely experience and day, Tom was very professional and always available to answer all our questions, I highly recommend his service.
David S 12/17/2024-thumbtack.com
We were married by Tom early December 2024. I gotta say working with Tom was great! Not only did he help us find a place to have the ceremony, he also helps us write our vows. We had a non religious ceremony and he was very respectful of our religions and culture. Thank you so much, Tom for making our special day so easy and great!
Penny Z 12/20/2024 -Fash.com
Excellent experience - wholeheartedly recommend!When a situation arose that required an officiant for our marriage within 10 days, Minister Tom came to the rescue!Throughout the entire process, Tom did an excellent job communicating and providing options to make our special day extra special!Very accommodating for our preferences -- large or small, religious or secular, extravagant or frugal, Minister Tom provided options and accommodations for all our requests.Thank you Minister Tom!
Dorcus Perking 01/03/2025-google review
My husband and I were very happy to have Tom officiate are wedding! He was on time and he was very heartwarming during the ceremony!
Tiffanie W. 01/04/2026-thumtack.com
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